diff --git a/crates/erp-diary/src/handler/parent_handler.rs b/crates/erp-diary/src/handler/parent_handler.rs
index 951ae38..d07ddf2 100644
--- a/crates/erp-diary/src/handler/parent_handler.rs
+++ b/crates/erp-diary/src/handler/parent_handler.rs
@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 // 家长中心 API 处理器 — PIPL 合规: 绑定/查阅/导出/删除
 
-use axum::extract::{Extension, FromRef, Query, State};
+use axum::extract::{Extension, FromRef, Path, Query, State};
 use axum::response::Json;
 use serde::{Deserialize, Serialize};
 use utoipa::{IntoParams, ToSchema};
@@ -309,6 +309,124 @@ where
     }))
 }
 
+/// 确认绑定请求的路径参数
+#[derive(Debug, Deserialize, IntoParams)]
+pub struct BindingIdPath {
+    /// 绑定请求 ID
+    pub binding_id: Uuid,
+}
+
+#[utoipa::path(
+    get,
+    path = "/api/v1/diary/parent/pending",
+    responses(
+        (status = 200, description = "待确认绑定列表", body = ApiResponse<Vec<BindingResp>>),
+        (status = 401, description = "未授权"),
+    ),
+    security(("bearer_auth" = [])),
+    tag = "家长中心"
+)]
+/// GET /api/v1/diary/parent/pending
+///
+/// 孩子查看自己的待确认绑定请求列表。
+pub async fn list_pending_bindings<S>(
+    State(state): State<DiaryState>,
+    Extension(ctx): Extension<TenantContext>,
+) -> Result<Json<ApiResponse<Vec<BindingResp>>>, AppError>
+where
+    DiaryState: FromRef<S>,
+    S: Clone + Send + Sync + 'static,
+{
+    let bindings =
+        ParentService::list_pending_for_child(ctx.tenant_id, ctx.user_id, &state.db).await?;
+
+    let resp: Vec<BindingResp> = bindings
+        .into_iter()
+        .map(|b| BindingResp {
+            binding_id: b.id,
+            child_id: b.parent_id, // 对于孩子端，显示家长 ID
+            verified_at: b.verified_at,
+        })
+        .collect();
+
+    Ok(Json(ApiResponse::ok(resp)))
+}
+
+#[utoipa::path(
+    post,
+    path = "/api/v1/diary/parent/bindings/{binding_id}/confirm",
+    params(("binding_id" = Uuid, Path, description = "绑定请求ID")),
+    responses(
+        (status = 200, description = "确认成功", body = ApiResponse<BindingResp>),
+        (status = 401, description = "未授权"),
+        (status = 403, description = "无权确认此绑定"),
+        (status = 404, description = "绑定请求不存在"),
+    ),
+    security(("bearer_auth" = [])),
+    tag = "家长中心"
+)]
+/// POST /api/v1/diary/parent/bindings/:binding_id/confirm
+///
+/// 孩子确认家长绑定请求。确认后家长获得查看日记等权限。
+pub async fn confirm_binding<S>(
+    State(state): State<DiaryState>,
+    Extension(ctx): Extension<TenantContext>,
+    Path(binding_id): Path<Uuid>,
+) -> Result<Json<ApiResponse<BindingResp>>, AppError>
+where
+    DiaryState: FromRef<S>,
+    S: Clone + Send + Sync + 'static,
+{
+    let binding = ParentService::confirm_binding(
+        ctx.tenant_id,
+        ctx.user_id,
+        binding_id,
+        &state.db,
+        &state.event_bus,
+    )
+    .await?;
+
+    Ok(Json(ApiResponse::ok(BindingResp {
+        binding_id: binding.id,
+        child_id: binding.parent_id,
+        verified_at: binding.verified_at,
+    })))
+}
+
+#[utoipa::path(
+    post,
+    path = "/api/v1/diary/parent/bindings/{binding_id}/reject",
+    params(("binding_id" = Uuid, Path, description = "绑定请求ID")),
+    responses(
+        (status = 200, description = "拒绝成功"),
+        (status = 401, description = "未授权"),
+        (status = 403, description = "无权拒绝此绑定"),
+        (status = 404, description = "绑定请求不存在"),
+    ),
+    security(("bearer_auth" = [])),
+    tag = "家长中心"
+)]
+/// POST /api/v1/diary/parent/bindings/:binding_id/reject
+///
+/// 孩子拒绝家长绑定请求。
+pub async fn reject_binding<S>(
+    State(state): State<DiaryState>,
+    Extension(ctx): Extension<TenantContext>,
+    Path(binding_id): Path<Uuid>,
+) -> Result<Json<ApiResponse<()>>, AppError>
+where
+    DiaryState: FromRef<S>,
+    S: Clone + Send + Sync + 'static,
+{
+    ParentService::reject_binding(ctx.tenant_id, ctx.user_id, binding_id, &state.db).await?;
+
+    Ok(Json(ApiResponse {
+        success: true,
+        data: None,
+        message: Some("已拒绝绑定请求".to_string()),
+    }))
+}
+
 /// journal_entry::Model -> JournalResp DTO 转换
 ///
 /// 与 journal_service 中的 model_to_resp 逻辑一致，
diff --git a/crates/erp-diary/src/lib.rs b/crates/erp-diary/src/lib.rs
index e56e034..9f9a776 100644
--- a/crates/erp-diary/src/lib.rs
+++ b/crates/erp-diary/src/lib.rs
@@ -255,5 +255,18 @@ impl DiaryModule {
                 "/diary/parent/unbind",
                 axum::routing::delete(parent_handler::unbind_child),
             )
+            // 孩子确认/拒绝绑定
+            .route(
+                "/diary/parent/pending",
+                axum::routing::get(parent_handler::list_pending_bindings),
+            )
+            .route(
+                "/diary/parent/bindings/{binding_id}/confirm",
+                axum::routing::post(parent_handler::confirm_binding),
+            )
+            .route(
+                "/diary/parent/bindings/{binding_id}/reject",
+                axum::routing::post(parent_handler::reject_binding),
+            )
     }
 }
diff --git a/crates/erp-diary/src/service/parent_service.rs b/crates/erp-diary/src/service/parent_service.rs
index 8b37941..5cd1a34 100644
--- a/crates/erp-diary/src/service/parent_service.rs
+++ b/crates/erp-diary/src/service/parent_service.rs
@@ -16,10 +16,10 @@ use erp_core::events::{DomainEvent, EventBus};
 pub struct ParentService;
 
 impl ParentService {
-    /// 绑定孩子 — 家长通过孩子用户 ID 建立绑定关系
+    /// 绑定孩子 — 家长发起绑定请求（需要孩子确认）
     ///
-    /// 检查是否已存在有效绑定，避免重复绑定。
-    /// 插入后发布 `diary.parent.child_bound` 事件。
+    /// 创建 pending 状态的绑定记录，孩子需调用 confirm_binding 确认后
+    /// 才能获得 verified 状态。防止未授权绑定（审计 S-10）。
     pub async fn bind_child(
         tenant_id: Uuid,
         parent_id: Uuid,
@@ -27,30 +27,38 @@ impl ParentService {
         db: &DatabaseConnection,
         event_bus: &EventBus,
     ) -> DiaryResult<parent_child_binding::Model> {
-        // 检查是否已绑定
+        // 验证孩子用户存在且角色为 student
+        let child_exists = validate_child_user(tenant_id, child_id, db).await?;
+        if !child_exists {
+            return Err(DiaryError::BadRequest("目标用户不存在或不是学生角色".to_string()));
+        }
+
+        // 检查是否已存在有效绑定（pending 或 verified 均视为已绑定）
         let existing = parent_child_binding::Entity::find()
             .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::ParentId.eq(parent_id))
             .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::ChildId.eq(child_id))
             .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::TenantId.eq(tenant_id))
             .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::Status.ne("revoked"))
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::DeletedAt.is_null())
             .one(db)
             .await?;
 
         if existing.is_some() {
-            return Err(DiaryError::BadRequest("已绑定该孩子".to_string()));
+            return Err(DiaryError::BadRequest("已存在绑定关系（待确认或已生效）".to_string()));
         }
 
         let now = Utc::now();
         let id = Uuid::now_v7();
 
+        // 创建 pending 状态 — 需要孩子确认后才变为 verified
         let model = parent_child_binding::ActiveModel {
             id: Set(id),
             tenant_id: Set(tenant_id),
             parent_id: Set(parent_id),
             child_id: Set(child_id),
-            verification_method: Set("manual".to_string()),
-            verified_at: Set(Some(now)),
-            status: Set("verified".to_string()),
+            verification_method: Set("child_confirm".to_string()),
+            verified_at: Set(None), // 确认后填入
+            status: Set("pending".to_string()),
             created_at: Set(now),
             updated_at: Set(now),
             created_by: Set(parent_id),
@@ -64,11 +72,12 @@ impl ParentService {
         event_bus
             .publish(
                 DomainEvent::new(
-                    "diary.parent.child_bound",
+                    "diary.parent.binding_requested",
                     tenant_id,
                     serde_json::json!({
                         "parent_id": parent_id,
                         "child_id": child_id,
+                        "binding_id": id,
                     }),
                 ),
                 db,
@@ -78,6 +87,114 @@ impl ParentService {
         Ok(inserted)
     }
 
+    /// 孩子确认绑定 — 将 pending 状态变为 verified
+    ///
+    /// 只有绑定中的 child_id 本人才能确认。确认后家长获得
+    /// 查看孩子日记/导出数据/删除数据的权限。
+    pub async fn confirm_binding(
+        tenant_id: Uuid,
+        child_id: Uuid,
+        binding_id: Uuid,
+        db: &DatabaseConnection,
+        event_bus: &EventBus,
+    ) -> DiaryResult<parent_child_binding::Model> {
+        let binding = parent_child_binding::Entity::find()
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::Id.eq(binding_id))
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::TenantId.eq(tenant_id))
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::DeletedAt.is_null())
+            .one(db)
+            .await?
+            .ok_or_else(|| DiaryError::NotFound("绑定请求不存在".to_string()))?;
+
+        // 只有绑定目标孩子能确认
+        if binding.child_id != child_id {
+            return Err(DiaryError::Forbidden);
+        }
+
+        if binding.status != "pending" {
+            return Err(DiaryError::BadRequest("绑定请求不在待确认状态".to_string()));
+        }
+
+        let now = Utc::now();
+        let current_version = binding.version;
+        let mut active: parent_child_binding::ActiveModel = binding.into();
+        active.status = Set("verified".to_string());
+        active.verified_at = Set(Some(now));
+        active.updated_at = Set(now);
+        active.updated_by = Set(child_id);
+        active.version = Set(current_version + 1);
+        let updated = active.update(db).await?;
+
+        event_bus
+            .publish(
+                DomainEvent::new(
+                    "diary.parent.binding_confirmed",
+                    tenant_id,
+                    serde_json::json!({
+                        "parent_id": updated.parent_id,
+                        "child_id": child_id,
+                        "binding_id": binding_id,
+                    }),
+                ),
+                db,
+            )
+            .await;
+
+        Ok(updated)
+    }
+
+    /// 孩子拒绝绑定 — 将 pending 状态变为 revoked
+    pub async fn reject_binding(
+        tenant_id: Uuid,
+        child_id: Uuid,
+        binding_id: Uuid,
+        db: &DatabaseConnection,
+    ) -> DiaryResult<()> {
+        let binding = parent_child_binding::Entity::find()
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::Id.eq(binding_id))
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::TenantId.eq(tenant_id))
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::DeletedAt.is_null())
+            .one(db)
+            .await?
+            .ok_or_else(|| DiaryError::NotFound("绑定请求不存在".to_string()))?;
+
+        if binding.child_id != child_id {
+            return Err(DiaryError::Forbidden);
+        }
+
+        if binding.status != "pending" {
+            return Err(DiaryError::BadRequest("绑定请求不在待确认状态".to_string()));
+        }
+
+        let now = Utc::now();
+        let current_version = binding.version;
+        let mut active: parent_child_binding::ActiveModel = binding.into();
+        active.status = Set("revoked".to_string());
+        active.updated_at = Set(now);
+        active.updated_by = Set(child_id);
+        active.version = Set(current_version + 1);
+        active.update(db).await?;
+
+        Ok(())
+    }
+
+    /// 获取孩子的待确认绑定列表
+    pub async fn list_pending_for_child(
+        tenant_id: Uuid,
+        child_id: Uuid,
+        db: &DatabaseConnection,
+    ) -> DiaryResult<Vec<parent_child_binding::Model>> {
+        let bindings = parent_child_binding::Entity::find()
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::TenantId.eq(tenant_id))
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::ChildId.eq(child_id))
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::Status.eq("pending"))
+            .filter(parent_child_binding::Column::DeletedAt.is_null())
+            .all(db)
+            .await?;
+
+        Ok(bindings)
+    }
+
     /// 获取家长绑定的孩子列表
     ///
     /// 只返回 status=verified 且未软删除的绑定。
@@ -267,6 +384,28 @@ impl ParentService {
     }
 }
 
+/// 验证目标用户存在且角色为 student
+async fn validate_child_user(
+    tenant_id: Uuid,
+    child_id: Uuid,
+    db: &DatabaseConnection,
+) -> DiaryResult<bool> {
+    use erp_auth::entity::{role, user_role};
+
+    // 检查用户存在且有 student 角色
+    let count = user_role::Entity::find()
+        .filter(user_role::Column::UserId.eq(child_id))
+        .filter(user_role::Column::TenantId.eq(tenant_id))
+        .filter(user_role::Column::DeletedAt.is_null())
+        .inner_join(role::Entity)
+        .filter(role::Column::Code.eq("student"))
+        .filter(role::Column::DeletedAt.is_null())
+        .count(db)
+        .await?;
+
+    Ok(count > 0)
+}
+
 #[cfg(test)]
 mod tests {
     use super::*;